Friday, October 19, 2012

~*~Regret ?~*~ Say it now instead..~*~*~*








We often wait till its too late . Too often we fail to recognize the person who actually cares for us. Too often we  to fail to tell a person how much they mean to us. Too often we take people for granted and realize only after they’ve left that how much we’ve lost.Too often we avoid a person so much that they build walls around them to prevent us from entering their world again. Too often we realize…But its too late..
Regret – is a terrible feeling. The feeling of “What might have been” – EVEN WORSE.
People are mortal , memories aren’t. Why not create eternal memories and relation with the mortal being who is ready to sacrifice everything for your happiness ? Why not make the best of the opportunity you have NOW to make a person realize what he/she means to you ? Why not accept “I was wrong” and apologize rather than wait for the  other person to take the first step ?
There are people in your life with whom you’ve shared innumerable memorable laughters , smiles and tears. But have you stopped and THANKED them  for everything they did for you ? Or the way they made you feel ? Every one deserves to know what you think of them. Everyone loves knowing how much they mean to a certain person. Take out a moment from your busy life to tell others what they mean to you. I personally call it “Thank you messages”. Everytime someone makes me feel good or happy I text the person how happy his/her gesture made me feel. Or how much I treasured the moment we shared. No its not GAY (for all the peeves reading this post) , neither is it extra display of affection. I am just making sure that tomorrow if something happens to me – or the other person , I don’t have a regret that I died without telling a person how they made me feel or how much they mean to me.And I’ll spare the person the anticipation of what they meant to me . Life is short , don’t waste your life holding back and waiting for an opportune moment to tell your friends / family or lover – how much they mean to you. You needn’t do it too often , but make sure you do it when they’re near,. Don’t wait till its too late and have words chiseled on the grave stones.Say it now instead. Do it now instead.They might not even lend ears to your thoughtfulness once its too late. You’ll shout – you’ll cry. And then you’ll realize what you’ve lost but it will be too late to go back and take the chance which you waited forever to take. And as it is , time turners are almost impossible to find.

15 comments:

  1. Penned the brilliance Ayushi. Justified with the gravity of the title.. Superlike..

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    1. Thanks a lot for your encouraging words Siddhartha ! :)

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  2. Lovely post..lovely thoughts

    P.S: Thanks for passing by and reading my post at type2express...Keep in touch :)

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    1. Thank you so much Harshita :)

      Liked your post :) Surely will. :)

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  3. thanks 4 being m friend :)
    love dis kinda thought 4m you :)

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  4. Hey Ayushee...just went through ur blog and needless to say found the thoughts refreshing and from the heart compared to all 'noise' one reads online.I am a Managing Editor of an international Literary Magazine and would like you to contribute to our magazine. If you are interested I have sent you a mail with the details. If you have any questions let me know..I can be reached at nikhil@efictionmag.com

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    1. Thanks sir. I just sent you a mail regarding the queries. Waiting for your reply :)

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  5. I Miss My Mom.. Wish I Could tell her How Much I Love Her.. How Much I Need Her..!
    And That's Y I show my love and appreciation to everyone around.. So that that person won't get a chance to say..,"Say It Now Instead"
    And About your writing,, Its Simply Superb As Ever.. I can never get enough of your talent.. So I Appreciate You Now Instead !! =) <3

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  7. in love vth u nd ur blogs....its awesome....jst love ur writing...i feel blessed 2 hve a frnd lyk u...'miss multi talented'.....jst b thr..always nd 4rever....nd agar koi galti ho jae dn dnt wait 4r me 2 say sry...jst come nd say...lolzzz.kidding...frndship me no sorry nd no thank u...<3<3

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    1. Hahahaha Sona :) You are awesome. Never fail to make me smile. Tere se kabhi koi galti ho hi nahi sakti :) Ho bhi jae to maaf hai :D Apan to chuddy buddy hai na :D

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