~*~Regret ?~*~ Say it now instead..~*~*~*

We often wait till its too late . Too often we fail to recognize the person who actually cares for us. Too often we  to fail to tell a person how much they mean to us. Too often we take people for granted and realize only after they’ve left that how much we’ve lost.Too often we avoid a person so much that they build walls around them to prevent us from entering their world again. Too often we realize…But its too late..
Regret – is a terrible feeling. The feeling of “What might have been” – EVEN WORSE.
People are mortal , memories aren’t. Why not create eternal memories and relation with the mortal being who is ready to sacrifice everything for your happiness ? Why not make the best of the opportunity you have NOW to make a person realize what he/she means to you ? Why not accept “I was wrong” and apologize rather than wait for the  other person to take the first step ?
There are people in your life with whom you’ve shared innumerable memorable laughters , smiles and tears. But have you stopped and THANKED them  for everything they did for you ? Or the way they made you feel ? Every one deserves to know what you think of them. Everyone loves knowing how much they mean to a certain person. Take out a moment from your busy life to tell others what they mean to you. I personally call it “Thank you messages”. Everytime someone makes me feel good or happy I text the person how happy his/her gesture made me feel. Or how much I treasured the moment we shared. No its not GAY (for all the peeves reading this post) , neither is it extra display of affection. I am just making sure that tomorrow if something happens to me – or the other person , I don’t have a regret that I died without telling a person how they made me feel or how much they mean to me.And I’ll spare the person the anticipation of what they meant to me . Life is short , don’t waste your life holding back and waiting for an opportune moment to tell your friends / family or lover – how much they mean to you. You needn’t do it too often , but make sure you do it when they’re near,. Don’t wait till its too late and have words chiseled on the grave stones.Say it now instead. Do it now instead.They might not even lend ears to your thoughtfulness once its too late. You’ll shout – you’ll cry. And then you’ll realize what you’ve lost but it will be too late to go back and take the chance which you waited forever to take. And as it is , time turners are almost impossible to find.